Sunday, June 13, 2010

My special day



Last week I turned one year old! Even though I don't feel any older, it was still a very important day. In fact, my Lao-lao, Lao-ye, Nai-nai, and Ye-ye ALL came to see me!



They were all lining up to play with me and feed me food and change my diaper!



Aaaah ... what service!

The main event was last Sunday when Mommy and Daddy threw a big bash in my honor. Everybody ran around all morning making food and hanging up decorations.





I decided to take that opportunity to have my morning nap. By the time I woke up, my guest had begun to arrive! There were so many big people that at first, I felt shy, so I made sure to hold onto Mommy real tight.



In no time at all, I came out of my shell and decided to entertain my guests with a song and dance.



Then everybody sang happy birthday to me, and I got a cupcake! I took a couple of bites to be polite, but I don't much care for sweets as I am trying to watch my figure.



I'd like to thank all of my guests for coming to my birthday party! Boy oh boy did I have a good time!!!

Monday, June 7, 2010

Happy birthday Ruby!

Happy birthday to the sweetest, prettiest, squishiest baby in the world! I did not know what happiness was until I met you.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Birthday season

Today is the anniversary of the day Ruby was due! As almost all of Ruby's friends are the exact same age, we are now in the middle of full-blown birthday season. Ruby's playgroups have decided to organize joint first birthday parties to avoid massive scheduling conflicts and general birthday party burnout. We attended the birthday party for our working moms playgroup a couple of weeks ago. It was beautifully sunny day in the park.



Most of the babies in this group are a little older than Ruby, and many of them were full-on walking on their own. Ruby wanted to join in, but needed quite a bit of assistance.



Being working moms, all of the moms in the group are pretty busy, so we only have meetings every other week, and they're usually not very well-attended. This may have been the first time we got almost all of the babies together at one time!



Not to be excluded from the baby birthday season is Steve, who turned 29 earlier this week. I knew that what Steve had been wanting for a long time was for us to go out for a nice dinner just the two of us, something we have not done since our trip to Hawaii 6 months ago. Back then Ruby was going through major separation anxiety in the evenings, so our dinner dates were sort of plagued with the guilt that the baby was crying for us to come home. Since then, her separation anxiety first got even worse, and then in the last few weeks got much better. I decided to surprise Steve with a date night complete with a sitter for his birthday. Our nanny agreed to stay into the evening to look after Ruby, and this time she was totally fine while we were gone. Steve and I went to Fleur de Lys, which we have not been to since we first moved into the city five years ago.



The food was fantastic, and the best part was that we met Hubert Keller!



Somehow everyone at the restaurant, including Hubert knew it was Steve's birthday, so he got a birthday wish from the master chef himself!

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Housing Hunt Update

As you may recall from this post, I got my real estate broker's license back in February, mainly so that we could save on the commission when we buy a place. The house buying/selling season began in earnest in mid March or so, with very few listings during the winter months. Since then, we've been actively looking for a place to purchase. However, while we've usually seen a couple of new listings each week that merit a look, there have been very few places that we've seriously considered putting offers on, and no places that we've really loved. Despite that, we have actually put my broker's license to use and written a couple of offers.

First, in early April, we saw this single family home.



We really liked the fact it had a sun/family room that would have been perfect for Ruby as a playroom. There was also a fairly large yard (by SF standards) with a hot tub. In addition, the kitchen was nicely renovated a few years back. On the downside, the bedrooms and bathrooms were on the smaller side. We knew that it would likely sell quickly and for at least as much as the asking price of 1.399M. While we weren't willing (or able) to bid anywhere close to asking, we decided to put in offer anyways and see what happened. Well, what happened was that they received a total of 9 offers (!!!), and of course, ours (at 1.3M) was by far the lowest. In fact, the "winner" of the house paid significantly over the asking (almost 12%). We knew by the level of interest at the open houses that this place would be popular, but final result definitely surprised us from a quantitative prospective. I guess there's few enough properties in the city in decent neighborhoods, especially single family homes, that someone is always willing to (over)pay.

The second purchase offer we wrote was just in the last week. We first looked at this 3bd/2ba condo more than a month ago.



We thought it was a bit small and definitely overpriced, but really liked the modern layout, amazing kitchen with views, and ample closet space. There was also a shared yard and patio which had been recently renovated by the sellers, which would have worked well for BBQs and for Ruby to run around and play in (however, she's not even close to standing on the own yet, much less running). We decided at that time that we would more seriously consider smaller places like this once we get closer to the end of the season, as we really need to move this year. A month, and many open houses later, we still hadn't found any other places we seriously liked so we decided to look at this condo one more time and see if the sellers were willing to negotiate. This time, at the open house, the listing agent was there by himself, with not another soul in sight, and he made it clear that the sellers were ready to deal.

Shuyi and I debated a little bit about if and how much we should offer. Finally, we ended up offering only 1M for the place, which is significantly under the asking of 1.149M, but a very fair price for a condo of that size (~640/sqft), as well as when considering what the seller paid in 2007, at pretty much the peak of the market in the city (the national peak was about a year earlier). While we would have been okay with paying a little bit more, our main concern was that since we are only about a third of the way into the season, we'd have a pretty good chance of finding a place that would be better if we wait. The only way prevent buyer's remorse would be to get a very good deal. We didn't think there was much chance the seller would take our offer. However, since they weren't getting any other interested buyers, we figured they would definitely counteroffer; the only question was the number in the counteroffer. The sellers ended up only offering 49k off list, at the high end of the range for reasonable counteroffers. The listing agent suggested we counter the counter, but based on the amount, there was no way we could have arrived at a workable number for both parties. Therefore, we ended negotiations right then and there, and the sellers ended up dropping the list price immediately to 1.099 ($1000 under their counteroffer to us!).

So, while our housing search has been mostly frustrating so far, my brokers license may end up proving its usefulness in a more unexpected way. My parents recently decided that they'd like to eventually retire in the bay area, to be close to us and more importantly, Ruby and other future grandkids. Since prices have leveled out and interest rates are very low, they want to buy a house now (and rent it out in the interim) rather than wait until they are actually ready to retire and move. Places in SF or any close suburb are still out of their price range, but the exurbs have gotten much cheaper. Houses in places like Vallejo, where they have decided to buy, have dropped some 65-70% from the peak. Almost every single sale is either a REO (bank-owned foreclosure), or short-sale. Just yesterday, I helped them put in an offer on a 4bd/3ba bank-owned house that's about 2800sf on a 7500sf lot, listed for only $359,900. Why can't places in the city be that cheap! If it goes through, my broker's license will end up making me (or rather, saving my parents) over $11k in commission, for only a few hours of my time. Hmm, perhaps I'm in the wrong business.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Ruby's first ear lowering

As Ruby is fast approaching her first birthday (!!!) we decided that it was time for her to get her little hairs cut. Ruby was born with a good amount of hair.



However, it was always a bit sparse in parts and gave her the appearance of male-pattern baldness. This lended itself to a limited number of hairstyles in the first few months, including the mohawk



and the comb-over.



In the past few months, Ruby's little hairs have gotten quite long, and they were often getting into her eyes and tickling her ears.



We decided it was time to give them a trim. Ruby was none too pleased.



Nooo ... not my hairs!!!

Fortunately, the salon had a little TV that provided the necessary distraction.



Can't ... resist ... cartoons ...

The stylist trimmed Ruby's hairs in a jiffy.



And before we knew it, she was all done!



Now that Ruby's all well-groomed, she's ready to go out and find a job.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Mother's Day

Last Sunday was Shuyi's first Mother's Day as a mommy. While a major cause for celebration, it's difficult to make any grandiose plans with an 11-month-old in tow, so we kept it fairly low key. We first had a leisurely brunch at Home, a restaurant in the Castro. We then went to an open house in Noe Valley (the place wasn't very nice, although it was priced pretty low for the size). Finally, I cooked(!) pan-seared Halibut over asparagus for dinner, helped put Ruby to bed. We watched some Sunday night TV programming before heading to bed pretty early ourselves. So all in all, it was a fairly typical weekend day for us, except for the part about me cooking of course :)

I also made this video to commemorate Shuyi as a mother. I really look forwards to the years ahead, when Ruby can be involved in showing her love and admiration for her most wonderful mommy and making Mother's day even more special.

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

First words

On Wednesday May 12th at 7:45pm, Ruby said "I love you!" Ruby and I were engaging in our usual nighttime banter of me saying, "I loooove YOU" and Ruby responding in jibber jabber, but this time she mumbled back, "I wuv you." Of course there were no other witnesses and I haven't been able to get her to say it again, but this isn't science. Just because it's not reproducible doesn't mean it isn't true!