Saturday, June 26, 2010

Advancements

In the last couple of weeks, Ruby has made some pretty significant advancements in mobility and language. The most exciting of these is that she has finally started cruising! Although Ruby has had no trouble standing with support for quite some time, she did not dare to take a step for a long, long time.

Ruby at 7.5 months:


Ruby at 11.5 months:


Even though I could tell that she had the physical ability to cruise, Ruby is such a cautious baby that she had a lot of anxiety about moving her little feet. In fact, she would get so nervous while standing that her hands would sweat PROFUSELY, leaving little wet handprints on the furniture.

The first steps Ruby took were while holding onto our hands.



She then began to "cruise" along the railing of her crib, but only at the rate of about 1 inch per minute.



Just like watching a ferry in the distance, we could not tell she was moving by watching her, but if we turned away and looked back some time later, we could see she had moved closer to some other landmark.

Just in the last week, Ruby finally started cruising along furniture and also walking with her walker (a lion on wheels). As she has never rolled or crawled, this marks the first time in her life that she has been able to get from point A to point B.




In addition to this newfound mobility, Ruby is also becoming much more communicative. Here is a rundown of her progress:

Signs Ruby Can Do
All done
More
Milk

Words Ruby Can Say
Ma-ma
Ba-ba
Hi
Xie-xie (Thank you in Chinese)



So far she is bilingual and also able to communicate with the hearing-impaired!

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

The house

As most of you are now aware through the Facebook, Steve and I have recently entered contract on a house. After years of watching the market, scoping out open houses, obtaining broker's licenses, and multiple failed offers, we found this 4-bedroom, 2-bath single family home in the Inner Richmond neighborhood of San Francisco.


The house is a Stick/Eastlake-style Victorian home. In the main level of the house, many of the original period details have been preserved, although the kitchen and bathroom have been updated.


The rooms on the lower, garage level were added in the 90s, so they have a more modern layout. Although many homebuyers come to San Francisco specifically to seek out its older Victorian charm, Steve and I both prefer more contemporary-style homes, so we immediately decided that we would live in the bedrooms on the lower level. The official master bedroom with master bath attached is on the main level, but the closet is microscopic (as the Victorians owned very few clothes), so we decided that room would serve better as a guest room. The other smaller bedroom on the main level is right by the front door, so we will probably use that room as our office. In addition to these bedrooms and the kitchen, there is also a living room, formal dining room, and family room on the main level. This is already more rooms than we know how to furnish!

There are two more bedrooms on the lower level along with a bathroom and laundry closet. Steve and I plan to live in the larger of the bedrooms and use the smaller bedroom as the nursery. The highlight of the downstairs is an enormous playroom that leads out into a deck and backyard!


A yard for Ruby to play in is something we dared to dream for a house in the city, and although it's not nearly the size of the backyards of our suburban childhoods, it is actually quite sizeable by city standards. It even has a lemon tree so Ruby can set up lemonade stands on the street!


Although we have seen many homes on our search that have been more modern and designed more to our taste, we knew immediately that this house would be perfect for Ruby. It has plenty of play areas and extra room for us to grow into. However, the best and possibly most important feature of this house is the location.

The house is in the Inner Richmond, which is the neighborhood just north of Golden Gate Park. The neighborhood is quite similar to our current neighborhood, the Inner Sunset, in that there are also many great, affordable, ethnic restaurants and groceries as well as a relatively large Asian population. However, due to its location on 3rd Ave. and California, the house is at the intersection of several other neighborhoods.


Just half a block north, on the other side of California Street, is the prestigious Lake District, known for its large single family homes. It's really a neighborhood created by real estate agents to market the area to affluent families and separate it from their humbler Inner Richmond neighbors. However, it has definitely made the area a great place for families.

Two blocks to the east, past Arguello Blvd. are the even more prestigious Laurel and Presidio Heights neighborhoods, also the part of the city with by far the highest concentration of baby/children's shops. This is where Day One, our favorite baby store that also offers classes and groups for new parents, is located, along with an array of baby and maternity boutiques on the chic Sacramento Street. Laurel Village, at the center of Laurel Heights, also offers a couple of very nice grocery stores with high-quality produce and delis. For these reasons, we have probably frequented these neighborhoods more than any others in the city since Ruby was born.

While the same house half a block north or two blocks east would have definitely been out of our price range, this house is just a short walk to the main drags of Laurel and Presidio Heights, while still giving us access to the Richmond restaurants, which is essential as we have been spoiled by the easy access and plentiful variety of take-out options in the Sunset. What is also quite appropriate about this house is that it sits at the intersection, both literally and figuratively, of the predominantly Asian Richmond neighborhood and the predominantly White Lake and Presidio/Laurel Heights neighborhoods. In this way the house is on a macroscopic scale what I have always felt I have been on a microscopic scale within my own person!!

On top of all this, the house is in close proximity to four fantastic playgrounds: Rossi Playground, Mountain Lake Park, Laurel Hill Playground, and Julius Kahn. While it is not quite as close as our current place, it is still a walkable distance to Golden Gate Park, so we can still take advantage of the De Young and Cal Academy museums. Thinking to the future, the house is also in close proximity to some of the best public elementary schools in the city, giving us the option of staying in the city long-term. We have already begun thinking of this house as Ruby's House, as everything about it is really tailor-made to fit her. I suppose that's what we've been looking for all along.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Happy Father's Day!

Happy Father's Day to the family (grand)dads!





Friday, June 18, 2010

Playgroup birthday bash!



To celebrate our babies' first birthdays and the first anniversary of becoming a mommy, my Mommy's group threw a big bash for all the babies and their families this past weekend. It was a gloriously warm day in the city, reaching around 80 degrees even in the outer sunset where the party was held (almost unheard of during the summer fog season). Although similar in concept to our working moms playgroup birthday party, the planning that went into this celebration was far more extensive, complete with matching t-shirts for the babies.



We also got to meet all of the dads, and it was interesting to see where the babies got their looks.



Ruby had a blast hanging out with all of her little friends!



And the parents marvelled at what a difference a year makes.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

My special day



Last week I turned one year old! Even though I don't feel any older, it was still a very important day. In fact, my Lao-lao, Lao-ye, Nai-nai, and Ye-ye ALL came to see me!



They were all lining up to play with me and feed me food and change my diaper!



Aaaah ... what service!

The main event was last Sunday when Mommy and Daddy threw a big bash in my honor. Everybody ran around all morning making food and hanging up decorations.





I decided to take that opportunity to have my morning nap. By the time I woke up, my guest had begun to arrive! There were so many big people that at first, I felt shy, so I made sure to hold onto Mommy real tight.



In no time at all, I came out of my shell and decided to entertain my guests with a song and dance.



Then everybody sang happy birthday to me, and I got a cupcake! I took a couple of bites to be polite, but I don't much care for sweets as I am trying to watch my figure.



I'd like to thank all of my guests for coming to my birthday party! Boy oh boy did I have a good time!!!

Monday, June 7, 2010

Happy birthday Ruby!

Happy birthday to the sweetest, prettiest, squishiest baby in the world! I did not know what happiness was until I met you.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Birthday season

Today is the anniversary of the day Ruby was due! As almost all of Ruby's friends are the exact same age, we are now in the middle of full-blown birthday season. Ruby's playgroups have decided to organize joint first birthday parties to avoid massive scheduling conflicts and general birthday party burnout. We attended the birthday party for our working moms playgroup a couple of weeks ago. It was beautifully sunny day in the park.



Most of the babies in this group are a little older than Ruby, and many of them were full-on walking on their own. Ruby wanted to join in, but needed quite a bit of assistance.



Being working moms, all of the moms in the group are pretty busy, so we only have meetings every other week, and they're usually not very well-attended. This may have been the first time we got almost all of the babies together at one time!



Not to be excluded from the baby birthday season is Steve, who turned 29 earlier this week. I knew that what Steve had been wanting for a long time was for us to go out for a nice dinner just the two of us, something we have not done since our trip to Hawaii 6 months ago. Back then Ruby was going through major separation anxiety in the evenings, so our dinner dates were sort of plagued with the guilt that the baby was crying for us to come home. Since then, her separation anxiety first got even worse, and then in the last few weeks got much better. I decided to surprise Steve with a date night complete with a sitter for his birthday. Our nanny agreed to stay into the evening to look after Ruby, and this time she was totally fine while we were gone. Steve and I went to Fleur de Lys, which we have not been to since we first moved into the city five years ago.



The food was fantastic, and the best part was that we met Hubert Keller!



Somehow everyone at the restaurant, including Hubert knew it was Steve's birthday, so he got a birthday wish from the master chef himself!